Premature Ejaculation : What Should Men Know About This Issue ?

Premature ejaculation is still considered to be a pubertal condition among men, which simply does not occur at a certain age. It is not that simple. Scientists suspect that more than 25% of adult men have experienced premature ejaculation once or several times.

 A premature ejaculation is when the ejaculation occurs regularly before, during or after the penis entering or if the man has no control over his ejaculation. The causes of premature ejaculation could not be sufficiently clarified until today. Scientists suspect primarily psychological reasons, but also consider neurophysiological causes possible.

The problem often has a negative impact on the psyche and relationship of the affected men, so they should seek help from a urologist. While there is no need for action when premature ejaculation occurs, as soon as men and their partners suffer from premature ejaculation, therapy is initiated. The sufferer receives psychotherapeutic stabilization measures and tips on how to delay his ejaculation manually. Only if psychotherapy does not bring the hoped-for success, medical therapies may be used. Mainly used are antidepressants, as they treat the mental state and above the premature ejaculation. For a few years, a drug is available that has been specially developed for the treatment of ejaculation praecox,

Patients should first and foremost try to solve the premature ejaculation with their partner, a sexual therapy can be supportive. Together with the partner, most affected people manage to fulfill their love life. Ideally, this will succeed through a jointly developed preventative strategy that will enable the later climax. But even in cases where therapy is initially unhelpful, premature ejaculation may not be detrimental to the relationship. Many couples report a fulfilling sex life in which they could build ejaculation.

Causes of premature ejaculation

Premature ejaculation is not a rare occurrence. About every fifth man under the age of 60 is affected and occurs regardless of age. This makes it the second most common sexual disorder of the male.

It can become a mental war for the psyche and a show of strength for the fulfilled sexual life of many couples. The cause can be very different, sometimes even inherited. Unfortunately, it is a taboo subject for many men and only a few address their problem with the doctor.

What is the cause ?

The "fast shot" can occur at any age. Most of the time the problem begins at an adolescent age and tends to decrease over the course of life.

The doctors distinguish between:

• lifelong and
• acquired premature ejaculation.

As lifelong premature ejaculation is called, if - regardless of the woman and the erotic situation - the person already comes too early in the first sexual activity. With age, the man becomes more experienced and learns to assess the ejaculation reflex. If control fails, anxiety, inferiority, and the idea of ​​being a bad lover will develop over time. The result is a convulsive effort, so that nothing goes wrong and everything ends in a vicious circle. In contrast, the acquired form occurs after a "normal" love life, often as a concomitant disease, for example, from erectile dysfunction, an inflammation of the prostate or a dysfunction of the thyroid gland.

You should not shy away from going to the doctor. There are now numerous therapies. Experienced psychotherapists are available to help and advise. Helpful is the learning of the stop-start technique and there are also suitable drugs.

What does "he comes too early" mean?

Premature ejaculation is a sexual dysfunction of the man, which is very early for a ejaculation. He is unable to control the right moment during sexual intercourse. The sperm is released into the vagina before or immediately after penetration of the male member. Sexual intercourse ends after less than three minutes with premature ejaculation. If you want to get to the bottom of the cause, then these facts are important to your urologist:

• They feel the time to ejaculation is too short
• They feel that they can not control the time sufficiently
• They feel that their love relationship suffers regularly

But one thing you should keep in mind is that this situation does not always have to be unsatisfactory. That one (s) from time to time is very fast, can be completely normal and depends on the environment or mood of the respective situation.

Treatment of premature ejaculation

A well-known saying is:He who comes too late is punished by life! ". Sexual life is exactly the opposite. An early ejaculation and an unfulfilled love life burden the man as well as the partnership. However, there are some ways to treat the loss of control in order to gain more time and pleasure in the love life again.

If the suffering is too great, do not be afraid to go to the doctor. Depending on the cause, a psychic, medical or psychotherapeutic treatment can then take place in a conversation. In the psychotherapeutic methods such as sexual and behavioral therapy, couple and family therapy, it is advantageous if both partners go the way together. Fears and sexual pressure to perform are broken down, old patterns of thinking and behavior interrupted. One of the approaches to treatment is the joint training of both lovers.

• Premature ejaculation can be delayed by training the pelvic floor muscles.
• Practice the stop-start method after Masters and Johnson. Man (n) learns to control his arousal better. Shortly before the climax of the excitement, a break is taken, to then come back to the excitement.
• The squeeze technique also serves the delay. The man should perceive his arousal more consciously. He interrupts the love union just before the climax. He exerts with his thumb for several seconds pressure on the penis below the glans. The amount of blood decreases and premature ejaculation is delayed.
• Ointments and condoms are another variant. They have an anesthetic effect, inhibiting and delaying.

Premature ejaculation can also be treated with medication. Your doctor will recommend the right medicine and prescribe the medicine. There are local anesthetics (spray, ointments, gel), psychotropic drugs and drugs with anti-ejaculating side effects ready. However, you should remember that treatment with tablets and capsules can prevent premature ejaculation, but the cause can not be resolved. Because of the potential side effects, this treatment should be considered as a last resort.